Lovers In Training™

Practicing Deeper Love
For God, Others, and Self
With Every Breath

Lovers In Training™
Healing the Me I See in You™ Gatherings

Designed to be 55-60 minutes long.

First remove the beam out of your own eye. Then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother's eye. —Matthew 7:5.


By healing the things in us that we see in others, we can live more consciously in love. The process, Healing the Me I See in You™, is designed to help us heal such things.

One of the purposes of this gathering is to practice this process so it can be used in daily life. Participants, depending upon their skill levels and willingness, will see it demonstrated, be walked through it, walk others through it, and walk themselves through it with others watching and giving guidance, as needed. With a practice, they will be able to do it, by themselves, in their daily lives.

Gathering Format

This page is a general guide to the Healing the Me I See in You™ gathering format. Individual groups may vary this format as they are guided, sometimes from gathering to gathering.

  • Breathing Love. Inhale love, exhale anything less than love. (About 2 minutes.)
  • Greet Neighbors. Turn to your neighbors and tell them, with love, that you're glad they're here. Thank them, with love, when they say that to you.
  • Statement of Being. A reader reads the Statement of Being.
  • Welcome Newcomers and Visitors. Newcomers and other visitors who wish to do so are invited to stand and identify themselves by first name only. In larger gatherings, this may be done in clusters, instead of to the whole room.
  • Membership Commitment. A reader reads the Membership Commitment.
  • First Time Commitments. New members making their first public commitments are invited to come forward. A reader reads the Membership Commitment, phrase by phrase. New members repeat each phrase. Members in the gathering may repeat along with the new members, as a way to reaffirm their commitments to living love.
  • Remembrance of Commitment to Love. An internally created visual image is generated by each new member to remind them of their commitment to living love.
  • Anniversary Celebrations. Members with 1, 2, 3, and 6 month and annual anniversaries are invited to come forward. A new internal image of remembrance is generated, and compared to the original, to recognize the growth in love over time.
  • Demonstration of Healing. One experienced person walks another through the Healing the Me I See in You™ process.
  • Breathing Love. Inhale love, exhale anything less than love. (About 2 minutes.)
  • Healing Process. (About 15-25 minutes.) Groups of two to six or so people form. One person reads the steps while another goes through the process. Others may observe, remaining quiet until the person doing the process is finished. After one person finishes, people in the group take turns in different roles. People new to the process are encouraged start with small upsets to get familiar with the process, before tackling their big issues.
  • Love Offering and Announcements. Your loving donations are gratefully appreciated, but never solicited. A few short announcements, such as when the next gathering will be, are also made.
  • Breathing Love. Inhale love, exhale anything less than love. (About 2 minutes.)
  • Invitation. Go, live love, pass it on, come back often, and invite your friends.

Some people may stay around for a bit to share love, particularly after evening and weekend gatherings. This a good way to connect with like hearted folks.

Pass it On!

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Tell your friends about this site, especially the ones who have had difficulties with relationships.

Be sure to tell them about our new free ebook Closeness in Love™. and our new free self help healing process, Healing the Me I See in You™.